Arlen Brother of All Jr., age 32, of Fort Thompson, passed away on July 5, 2021 at the Ava's House in Sioux Falls, SD. Funeral services will be 1:00 p.m. Saturday, July 10 ^th , 2021 at the Fort Thompson Community Center in Fort Thompson, SD. Wake services will be 7:00 p.m. Thursday, July 8 ^th and Friday, July 9 ^th , 2021 at the Fort Thompson Community Center in Fort Thompson, SD.

Arlen "AJ" Brother of All Jr. was born March 26, 1989 to Ursula Ross and Arlen Brother of All Sr. He grew up in Fort Thompson SD with his grandparents, Ivy and Harry Head, and his three sisters Sasha, Sierra, and Laurena. He attended Crow Creek Tribal Schools and graduated with the class of 2007.

He loved to play softball, basketball, football and enjoyed boxing in tough mans or against his friends and family. He also enjoyed making music and writing songs. Man, he could freestyle and had a true talent for music. He was always the one laughing and cracking jokes with everyone. When he walked in a room, he lit up the room with his contagious smile.

AJ met Joanna when they were only teenagers in January of 2005 and together, they had their first born daughter, Branda Lily La'Faye on January 2, 2007. They married on September 12, 2007 after they graduated high school together. They spent the next two years together raising Branda. In 2009 he then met and married Keisha Bruguier on December 26, 2009; whom he spent the next six years of his life with. Together they had two more daughters, Shaylaunni on December 16, 2013, and Shaymiah on April 29, 2014. His three daughters meant the world to him, and they were his pride and joy.

AJ is survived by his mother Ursula Ross, stepfather Terry Middletent, father Arlen Brother of All Sr., stepmother Laura Red Fox, four sisters Sasha Ross, Sierra And Laurena Goodlow, Emma Brother of All, five brothers Donovan, Edward, Bradyn, Breven, and BrayLen Brother of All, daughter Branda Brother of All (daughter of Joanna Killscrow), daughters Shaymiah and Shaylaunni Brother of All (daughters of Keisha Bruguier). Many aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews. A special friend Mary West, all the Knotz boys, and so many friends and extended family.

He was proceeded in death by his maternal grandparents Ivy and Harry Head, maternal grandfather Leslie "Corky" Ross, his oldest baby Kalowjoe Reese (baby with Joanna), paternal grandparents Darwin Brother of All and Harriet Ross, aunt Carmen Brother of All and special cousins Tory Kirkie and Phillip Comes Flying.